{"id":243068,"date":"2020-07-04T11:46:30","date_gmt":"2020-07-04T11:46:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/acikgazete.com\/?p=243068"},"modified":"2020-07-04T11:47:58","modified_gmt":"2020-07-04T11:47:58","slug":"ben-biz-ve-onlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/acikgazete.com\/ben-biz-ve-onlar\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130NG\u0130LTERE… Ben, biz ve onlar"},"content":{"rendered":"
Meslek hayat\u0131m boyunca bir\u00e7ok i\u015flere ba\u015fvurup m\u00fclakatlara kat\u0131ld\u0131m. \u00c7ok defalar i\u015f kadrolar\u0131n\u0131 belirleyen m\u00fclakat panellerinde bulundum.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
M\u00fclakata \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131landan istenilen, sorular\u0131 cevaplarken kendisinin ki\u015fisel deneyimlerini, g\u00fc\u00e7 durumlarla nas\u0131l ba\u015f etti\u011fini anlatmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u201cBiz\u201d olarak konu\u015fmas\u0131 ona d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck not ald\u0131r\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fe al\u0131nacak ki\u015finin o i\u015f i\u00e7in uygunlu\u011funu \u00f6l\u00e7mek bak\u0131m\u0131ndan bu yakla\u015f\u0131m do\u011fru ve etkilidir.<\/span><\/p>\n
Ancak ya\u015famda benmerkezcilik beraberinde bir\u00e7ok sorunlar getirir.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
Benmerkezci ki\u015fi olaylara hep kendi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan, yani \u00e7ok dar bir \u00e7er\u00e7eveden bakar. Kendisinin iste\u011fi, duygular\u0131, ama\u00e7lar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri her \u015feyden \u00f6nce gelir. Beyinleri ele\u015ftiriye kapal\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
Narsizm ile benmerkezcilik aras\u0131nda \u00e7ok ince bir \u00e7izgi vard\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n
E\u011fitime damga vuran psikolog Jean Piaget\u2019in teorisine g\u00f6re 2 ile 7 ya\u015f grubu \u00e7ocuklar \u201crasyonelle\u015fme devresi\u201dnden ge\u00e7er, ve bu ya\u015f grubu aras\u0131nda benmerkezcilik \u00e7ok yayg\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n
Ne var ki \u00e7ocuklarda normal bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 olan benmerkezcilik her ya\u015f grubunda kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan bir illettir. Belli ki \u201crasyonelle\u015fme devresi\u201dni geride b\u0131rakmay\u0131 beceremeyen bir\u00e7ok ki\u015filer vard\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n
Yaz\u0131m i\u00e7in ara\u015ft\u0131rma yaparken \u201cLifehack\u201d isimli \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir ya\u015fam geli\u015fim grubunun Web Sitesine rastlad\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n